Erika Jayne Gets Real About Lack of Support

Erika Jayne isn’t one to sugarcoat her truth.

Sitting down with The Inkey List, the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills star opened up about life after scandal, the myth of “women supporting women,” and what it really means to rebuild when the world’s watching.

“This isn’t a character,” Erika said, unapologetically. “There are ugly sides of my personality that have come out.”

It’s the kind of honesty that has long made Erika both a lightning rod and a fan favorite, equal parts glam and grit. After weathering public scrutiny and personal upheaval, the performer says she’s still learning to balance strength with softness.

But what really struck a chord? Her take on female solidarity, or, too often, the lack of it. “Women supporting women is rare,” she said plainly. “There is enough food at the table for all of us. We can all support each other honestly and openly. Just because one of us succeeds doesn’t mean you aren’t going to. Let’s be happy for one another, for our friends, our acquaintances, even someone you don’t know — when a woman steps out and is successful. Just be happy for her.”

Erika knows firsthand how success can bring out the claws. “I’ve gone through the worst part of my life on television, and I’m putting my life back together, still am,” she shared. “I would do things, like get a good job or land my Vegas residency, and I’d see people just tear it down. It’s like, hold on, guys, I’m out here trying to rebuild my life one brick at a time.”

But even in the face of criticism, she remains determined to lift others up. “If you succeed, I kind of feel like I succeed because I can watch you, and you’ve opened doors that make it easier for me to walk through,” she added.

For Erika, the message is simple — authenticity is messy, growth takes time, and real empowerment means clapping for each other even when it’s hard.