Ray J Calls Himself an Embarrassment to Brandy

Ray J got real about his rocky relationship with his sister, Brandy, during a raw sit-down on the “Drop the Lo” podcast with Evelyn Lozada and Shaniece Hairston. The singer opened up about feeling like a disappointment to his famous family, revealing emotions he’s rarely shared publicly.

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“I love my sister, but I’m an embarrassment to them,” Ray J confessed, touching on how disconnected he feels. When asked directly if he felt unaccepted, he replied, “I never wanted to be accepted, I just feel like I’m an embarrassment.”

Despite the personal tension, their kids are helping keep the family connected. Ray mentioned that his son Epik and Brandy’s daughter Sy’Rai have a tight bond.

“My kids were over at Brandy’s house two days ago,” he added, showing that the next generation is helping maintain family ties.

Some of the strain may stem from Ray J’s recent viral antics. In one recent clip, he jokingly begged streamer Kai Cenat for a spot at a sleepover. Brandy wasn’t amused, texting him, “Come on, Ray? What’s going on with you? You’re so much better than this!!” Ray later claimed she “hates who I am!” on social media.

In another incident, Ray J claimed on Twitch he had slept with rapper Sexyy Red, which she quickly shut down. He later admitted they just “took a nap on a plane.”

Ray J also touched on his mental health struggles, offering a rare glimpse into the personal battles behind his public image.